So, I’ve been in situations where it shows that people are of all sorts.
Nice ones, mean ones. Some loving and caring. Some are unbelievably selfish and ignorant. And then of course there’s few of them that you find yourself orbiting around and a few that are just absolutely repulsive!
And I end up thinking, who really matters to me? Cause there are times where that particular person that matters most , is the one that end up hurting you or pissing the crap outta you!
When things get shitty, you tend to find someone (let it be a friend or family). It’s someone you’re comfortable with, a person that you can talk to openly about issues or one that can help you figure out what to do next. Well, it is at times like this where you can really know who’s got your back. And I’m saying this based on experience here, people may surprise you! You might think this person will be there for you, and they might not. It’s gonna be a completely different person that holds you through your sorrow. So cherish those who don’t disappear when things get ugly.
Then there are those who you need to put a lot of effort to show them that you care. They need to be shown in every possible way that they matter to you. It can feel like a chore at times, but at the end of the day, it’s worth it. And I’m not just saying it, cause its these people that actually care for you as well. So I always remind myself to show those darlings that I do care.
Oh, lets not forget the selected few that love you no matter what (like your family). You can screw it up big time, but they do eventually forgive you and take you back. Its these kind of people that I try to not hurt. It hurts to see them being hurt, you see. I won’t deny, I’ve had those tiny failure moments, I mess it up and yet I’m not left alone. I gotta say, I’m pretty blessed to have them in my life.
Which reminds me, there are those who claim that you’re important to them, but all that is just bull crap. Why?? Cause they don’t mean it. Just words! Its all just words I tell you! They are oblivious of the fact that they are hurting you. I really don’t know why I still put up with them. Oh wait, that’s right, I actually cant let go of the good memories we shared. But of course, they don’t mean anything to that other person I guess. Ugh, this paragraph is so bitchy. Haha
Moving on, I see a lot of people who tend to sacrifice and compromise just for the sake of their loved one (no I don’t just mean couples, but friends and family as well). You get stuck in this situation that you hate but you just go on with it anyway cause its making the other person happy. And when things like these happen to me, like when I’m really freaking pissed about doing something, I think about who I’m doing it for. That’s what that keeps me going, cause I know that it’ll put a smile on the other person’s face.
Well, I tend to analyze people, the things they do and how they behave. It’s interesting actually. But I do it cause I try to figure out who matters and who don’t. All that I can say is, the people I know aren’t perfect and same goes to me. No one is perfect. There might be times where someone stabs your heart (or your back)with a knife and at times you might be the one hurting the other. At the end of the day, we all have some good in us don’t we? So we gotta learn to forgive, sacrifice and compromise.
And LOVE DON’T HATE.
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